Can you be the Main Character and not be selfish?


Part of what I LOVE about Campfyre Coaching is the way it allows for women to Center Themselves for once.

We all want to step into our Main Character energy, right? We know that's how we become magnetic, how we get what we want, how we make change in the world around us.

But... making ourselves the Main Character feels... selfish.

I had a super juicy conversation about this the other day with Maria (who's one of the O.G. campers, when I first ran it as the Rebel Alliance Mastermind) and we unpacked why this feels so uncomfortable.

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Because you are the main character of your own story, and a lot of messed up mental health stuff emerges when you decide that you're not.

In Campfyre Coaching you get to BE the main character. You get to tell your story how you want to tell it, and you get to take up the space you want.

And

You get to practice doing that in a circle of supportive women, who are not going to judge you, and who you don't have to worry about offending.

(One of our main group rules is always assume good intentions.)

Anyway, I found this amazing clip from my conversation with Maria, and I'd love you to watch it. It really hits at why this is so powerful (and so needed) for all of us right now - and it also gives a little hint into how the name of Campfyre Coaching came to be!

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Enrollment for Campfyre Coaching ends January 2nd, 2026 and our first call is on Tuesday, January 6th at 10:30am

Apply before Nov. 28th to lock in Early Turkey Discounts (because Black Friday, get it?) and get the full year PLUS a free 1:1 coaching session for just $1,500 (a $2,750 value!)

After that, remaining spots will be priced at $2,500 for the year.

Apply now to join in with no commitment until after you're accepted.

I can't wait to see what you do with your feelings stick πŸ˜‰

<3 Megan

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